sometimes you just need to lay on the floor and do nothing for three years
Anonymous asked: what do u think about kink shaming??
idk I don’t think being “kink shamed” is that big of a deal at all it’s definitely not even in the same playing field as sexism/racism/etc, it’s more like ur office job not allowing you to dye ur hair pink or get facial piercings like it’s not fun or fair rly but it’s not like oppression. plus a lot of ppl going on about DON’T KINK SHAME ME I AM NOT MY KINK IT’S OKAY TO HAVE FETISHES usually get in the way of rly important discussions about creepy racial fetishes/why the porn industry is terrible/kinks and fetishes don’t exist in a vacuum/etc
"boys don’t like it when you wear high waisted clothing" sorry i’m actually in fuck debt right now like i have no more fucks to give the government has issued a fuck deficit and i’ve just declared fuck bankruptcy
its 20 fucking 13 can we stop pretending that online activism and general awareness campaigns “dont do anything” before i got on tumblr i was a racist sexist anti-feminist piece of garbage whos greatest understanding of any social issue was discrimination against white gay men and that trans people were “men trapped in womens bodies”
obviously something fucking right is going on so why dont you stop being pessimistic little shits.